Genre: Memoir
Publisher, Year: Macmillan, 2009
Flags: Adult themes
Rating: A, or Great Read
Challenge:
Premise: Kystyna Chiger was just a child when Nazi Germany occupied her home town. Through the courage of her parents, she and her family find a way to evade capture and endure until the end of the war in the city’s sewers. An incredible survival story.
There are so many good books that deal with World War II, that describe the unspeakable cruelty and then bring to light the unimaginable courage and will to live in the face of that cruelty. And there is an endless amount of these stories. It can be difficult to be reminded of what a devastating a time it was. And it takes me off guard--every time--that such things occurred, that it actually happened, that there was a time and a place where people, millions of people . . . so many people . . . were subjected to such inhumanity, where only a fraction of those people actually survived. To think about the collection of stories that would exist if all of them could tell us of the struggle to their last moments, if they could speak beyond the grave.
It’s that thought that haunts me when I read a memoir. I’m sorry to say it, but this makes me a reluctant reader. Thank goodness for book club, or I might never have had the stomach to read this book. I’m so glad I did. This story is such a testament to the human spirit and to the bond of a family’s love. I was so moved and inspired by the Chiger family.
Krystyna was just your average little girl. She loved to play with her friends, to be outside, to spend time with her family. And when her little brother, Pawel, was born, the two became inseparable. But it wasn’t long before trouble began to brew. War was on the way, and after a difficult Russian occupation, Nazi Germany made things worse. Krystyna watched, from a child’s perspective, as the life her parents and grandparents had built was slowly pilfered away. They took everything. Soon it became apparent that living conditions would become increasingly worse, until they were all gone--until there were no Jews left. But Ignacy Chiger would not accept defeat, so when the final liquidation came, he was ready, and he took his family into the sewer, with others who fled, to find a way to outlast the war.
I think there are few of us who can really imagine the horrors that so many suffered. To read all of those fears dictated by a child--it was excruciating. I could only keep imagining my own daughter, and what it would have been like to have her childhood taken from her in such a vicious way, and I as her mother unable to do anything about it but try to protect her. One thing I feel I did not understand fully about the Holocaust before this book was exactly how the Nazis would capture Jews and kill them or send them away. Krystyna recalls the paralyzing fear of the “actions,” which was the word that described when the Nazis would show up, unannounced, and just pick up Jews, willy nilly. You either evaded through right place, right time or you could sometimes bribe your way out. For this reason, Krystyna rarely ever left her family’s living quarters, and often her father would actually hide her and her brother in a small space all day, just in case one of these actions commenced while he was away. She describes one rare moment when she was outside with her cousin, and when they heard the familiar commotion, they ran. Krystyna was fast enough; her cousin was not. Later, she looked out the window to see her grandmother and cousin together on the back of a truck, headed for who knows where. And she never saw them again. This is just one of many experiences from her story that have stayed with me.
Along with Krystyna, I felt that boundless helplessness, and yet, her family could not lose hope. They kept fighting for each other and for their lives. They resisted and resisted. And surprisingly, even after the war, they resisted some more. The emotional stamina that must claim is unfathomable to me. And I found myself thinking that if I had been in their position, I don’t know if I could have had the same strength.
It was the love they shared, the family and the friends they came to consider family, that sustained them in the long hours, the impossible conditions, the vermin, the hunger and sickness, the constant fear of discovery. And yet, they continued on, with incredible resilience. They always looked forward to the future, undaunted. Even though the conditions were beyond inhuman, they found ways to entertain each other with little plays, to engage in meaningful conversation, to try to learn new things, even while living in a nightmare.
As I came to the end of each chapter, I found myself wondering how it could possibly get worse, and yet it continued. Each harrowing tale followed after another, which made this story quite engrossing. And even though I knew from the outset that Krystyna and her family would survive whole, I still found myself unable to put the book down before I knew what had happened to her, so that I could imagine her, warm in a clean bed, surrounded by loved ones, freed from her sewer prison.
Krystyna Chiger’s story is one of the most memorable I have ever read and perhaps ever will. (Dare I say it?) This book fulfilled its purpose in that it illustrated the war and its terrible consequences. But I would also say this story affected me further than that. It spoke to me in a way that is hard to describe. I learned something about Krystyna, but I also learned something about myself.
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Monday, March 22, 2010
Persepolis by Marjane Satrapi

Publisher, Year: Pantheon Books, 2003
Other Works: Persepolis 2
Flags: Adult themes (violence), moderate language
Rating: A+, or Must Read Now!
Challenge: Library
Premise: A young girl lives in a turbulent world of war-torn Iran.
Another suggestion from Book on the Nightstand, I thoroughly enjoyed Persepolis by Marjane Satrapi. And I believe this is the very first graphic novel I’ve ever read or reviewed! And I’m happy to report that it was a positive experience.
Persepolis chronicles the goings-on of a young girl in a turbulent country. The book covers the overthrow of the Shah, the Iranian revolution, and then eventually the war with Iraq. The reader gets a peek inside the life of a well-off family at the time and how events changed their lives and shaped their future, all through the eyes of a child. Marjane sees the protesting and rioting, the institution of the veil, the outlaw of Western influences, and eventually, the bombing of her hometown. +/-
Thursday, March 18, 2010
The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls

Publisher, Year: Scribner, 2005
Other Works: Half Broke Horses
Flags: Adult themes, tenuous references
Rating: A-, or Good w/ Minor Problems
Challenge: Countdown, Library
Premise: The story of a girl growing up with a nomadic family in poverty--and how she overcame it.
As I was reading through this memoir, I could hear my mother’s voice in my mind, with her nose scrunched in disgust, saying, “I don’t like movies where the child is the mother and the mother is a child.” (We were watching Anywhere But Here at the time.) That line pretty much sums up this book for me. But, I did in fact like the book, it was just frustrating as all get out to watch this little family go down the drain because of two incompetent, selfish people.
Jeannette Walls, at the age of three, cooks hotdogs when she gets hungry. Her mother thinks children should be independent. So, she gets out a big pot, fills it with water, and boils her own hotdogs. One time, she makes the mistake of cooking her hotdogs in a fluffy pink tutu over a gas stove. Delicate tulle plus open flame--I think you can guess what happened next. This is the first occurrence in a long line of neglect, inflicted on four siblings who find solace only in sticking together. By the end of the long and arduous journey out of childhood, I was so anxious for the Walls’ kids to get out from under their family oppression and be a success in life, I couldn’t stop reading until I knew they would be alright. Although I suppose “alright” is a relative term. +/-
Although Walls’s parents have many faults, they weren’t sinister. They suffered from other debilitations. Namely, it seems they were the type of people who just weren’t meant to be adults, not to mention parents. They are so burdened by their lives (raising children, earning a living, managing a household--down to the most basic, like eating, taking a bath, cleaning their clothes, etc.), that they just run from responsibility at every turn. But what really got to me was the ways in which their selfish needs manifested, such as Dad quitting his job to work on a “machine” to mine gold (the supposed “answer to their poverty”) and Mom spending what little money they had on chocolate bars while her kids ate from the cafeteria trash at school, not to mention hiding the chocolate so only she could indulge herself. It seemed everything they did just shouted, “We’re the ones who need a mom and dad! We can’t take care of ourselves—it’s too hard!”
As I was reading through these dreadful tales, only becoming more and more desperate by every turn of the page, I began to wonder why the author would want to air this story in front of the world. What compelled her to share this story? I’m sure writing the novel must have been cathartic in that no one could really escape such a past unscathed, but maybe it also had something to do with her love for her parents. Even though they can be pretty despicable, the author doesn’t pass judgment. In some moments, she writes about them as tenderly and caring as any loving daughter, especially her father, who gave her intangible gifts of knowledge and self esteem—and a star in the sky at Christmas. His love was clouded by alcoholism, but that didn’t make it less real to Walls. They are certainly not ideal, but they are her parents. She knows for better or worse, she’s influenced by them, and not all the things they did or taught her were bad.
The Glass Castle is a house that Walls’s father always wanted to build. He spent painstaking hours perfecting the designs. He wanted to take care of his family and be a good parent, he just could not get the motivation to really do it. He dreamt big, but he lived small—very small. I think Walls took a lesson from that. That you can’t just dream big, you have to live big, too. And she did. She worked hard and never let her desire for more get in the way of her responsibilities or her success. And maybe she has her parents to thank for that.
Overall, I enjoyed the book, but it’s not one I’d ever want to read again. The author is a compelling storyteller, which makes the novel hard to put down. And although frustrating, once you can accept the inanity of her parents, the book can be quite an inspiring story of overcoming all odds.
Thursday, June 18, 2009
The Middle Place by Kelly Corrigan

Publisher, Year: Voice, 2008
Flags: Adult themes
Rating: B, or Flawed But Decent
Premise: Kelly Corrigan finds a lump in her breast. Before she knows it, she’s living the nightmare of cancer. And while in the midst of her treatment, she receives another blow, her father has also been diagnosed with cancer. Kelly takes us on her journey as she finds courage and love and peace with the hand she’s been dealt.
This book did not turn out to be exactly what I had expected, but I still thought it was alright, for the following reasons:
It gave me great insight into what it must be like to go through getting and fighting cancer. Kelly, the author, finds out she has a large tumor in her breast, and then has chemo and radiation therapy. Also, her father, with whom she is very close, is diagnosed with cancer soon after. It was interesting to read about her thoughts and feelings going through the process, having to face her mortality, and learning how to cope through treatment, hoping for the best. I think it helped me a lot to understand what it would be like to go through such a trying experience. It was also interesting to see how her other family members coped: her brothers, her husband, her mother, her +/-
father, and her extended family. To see how their views differed, and how they could work together to help one another find peace and hope.
I enjoyed her and her family's sense of humor throughout her ordeal. And even though there were many, many sobering moments, I felt like Kelly's sense of humor was always an important part of her "treatment," perhaps not the treatment of her cancer, but her "spiritual" treatment. Especially her happy-go-lucky, overly-friendly father, who loves to give everyone a nickname and tell jokes. (He calls Kelly "Lovey" and her husband "Ark," since he's from Arkansas. Also, there are many nicknames involving "o" at the end.)
Facing the possibility of death is something I find hard to imagine, since I've never been through it. She was so young when she was diagnosed, with a young husband and even younger daughters. She would be leaving behind a full life that she would never get the chance to live. At the same time, it almost seemed as though the possibility of her father's death devastated her even more than the thought of her own. I think she captures the hurt and anger that come with these sort of tragedies so well, and it really resonated with me. Sometimes life is so unfair, it's hard to find meaning in it. And yet, she is able to.
This book has been marketed as a "coming of age" story, but that didn't seem like a very good description when I finished it. It does include alternating stories between Kelly's childhood and her adult life, and she frequently talks about how she is reluctant to really "grow up." But, I didn't really see a change in Kelly from beginning to end. More than just anecdotes, I wish I could've seen into the heart of Kelly's ability to "rise above" her illness and to accept her "new life" as a cancer survivor, which she definitely did.
It is a great story about family, and I think a very candid one at that, as well. Overall, I enjoyed it.
I enjoyed her and her family's sense of humor throughout her ordeal. And even though there were many, many sobering moments, I felt like Kelly's sense of humor was always an important part of her "treatment," perhaps not the treatment of her cancer, but her "spiritual" treatment. Especially her happy-go-lucky, overly-friendly father, who loves to give everyone a nickname and tell jokes. (He calls Kelly "Lovey" and her husband "Ark," since he's from Arkansas. Also, there are many nicknames involving "o" at the end.)
Facing the possibility of death is something I find hard to imagine, since I've never been through it. She was so young when she was diagnosed, with a young husband and even younger daughters. She would be leaving behind a full life that she would never get the chance to live. At the same time, it almost seemed as though the possibility of her father's death devastated her even more than the thought of her own. I think she captures the hurt and anger that come with these sort of tragedies so well, and it really resonated with me. Sometimes life is so unfair, it's hard to find meaning in it. And yet, she is able to.
This book has been marketed as a "coming of age" story, but that didn't seem like a very good description when I finished it. It does include alternating stories between Kelly's childhood and her adult life, and she frequently talks about how she is reluctant to really "grow up." But, I didn't really see a change in Kelly from beginning to end. More than just anecdotes, I wish I could've seen into the heart of Kelly's ability to "rise above" her illness and to accept her "new life" as a cancer survivor, which she definitely did.
It is a great story about family, and I think a very candid one at that, as well. Overall, I enjoyed it.
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert

Liz does seek professional help for her depression, but in addition to that , she gets the idea to embark on a year-long trip to the three I’s (Italy, India, and Indonesia) for further rehabilitation from this disastrous time in her life. In Italy, she learns the meaning of pleasure; in India, she learns the meaning of prayer; and in Indonesia, she learns a hodge-podge of things, including the meanings of balance and love. +/-
I have to say that my favorite part of her trip was her time in Italy. (Perhaps that is telling of my own personality!) In Italy, Liz completely lets go of every worry. She allows herself to RELAX and to focus on nothing else but to chase the next pleasure, which revolve around eating, site-seeing, and speaking Italian, a language that she feels sets her soul free.
But I also enjoyed her anecdotes from India: her struggle to meditate and quiet her mind/fears, her straight-talking friend who calls her on the carpet, her release of painful experiences to God’s hands. It’s like you see Liz transform before your eyes in this section, from a struggling, pleasure-seeking, insecure girl, to a sensible, humble, and centered woman.
The last section was my least favorite. It didn’t feel like it had a theme running through as the others did. Liz didn’t have “goals” set out as she did in the previous two sections. She just went to Indonesia (Bali) and let life sort of take over. Although the section was still enjoyable, I didn’t feel as inspired by her experiences.
After the first two sections, I thought to myself how wonderful it would be to be able to leave everything about your life behind and to focus on one thing at a time, and only that one thing. To sort of shine one part of yourself until it gleams, and then move on to the next, systematically, until you shine all over. I’ve only been able to do this one time in my life, and I have to say, it does cause reflection and reinvention of self to take place.
I loved how Liz gave herself over to this reinvention, and how obviously you can tell that she is in fact a changed woman by the end. I also enjoyed her proactive spirit. She was unhappy, so she came up with a plan to turn her life around, even if it meant making changes and letting go of bad habits. It made me jealous of her. It made me want to follow in her footsteps. The writing was superb—like a well-prepared dessert. It was a page-turner for me, which I think is hard to do with a memoir. I would definitely recommend this book!
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What I loved about this book was how each event made sense to me as what a child would remember about their life. Even though she was experiencing things no child should have to, the things she remembers, down to little details, match her age, and I think it gives the work a real credibility. Not only that, but gives us the opportunity to see something like this from a new, real angle--which always provides enlightenment. At the same time, this book is clearly for adults, not kids.
I also really enjoyed the illustrations. I think this book is a perfect example of what a graphic novel should accomplish. The pictures were straight forward and simple (matching our narrator’s point-of-view) but imparted a well-rounded story that wouldn’t have been as developed with just words. This is such an interesting way to write a biography. Even though it is short and easy to read, I’m sure it took endless hours to whittle the story down to such concise perfection.
I found it an easy read, engaging, and interesting. It made me laugh, made me uncomfortable, and made me cry. I’m eager to read the second installment.
As a side note, Persepolis was made into a motion picture (French), and I am very interested to see it if I can track it down. They actually animated the original graphics, at which I was surprised and delighted. It looks amazing. Check out the website for the movie here.